How should a server handle a situation where a guest is becoming disruptive?

Approaching a guest calmly to explain the need for appropriate behavior is the most effective and professional way to handle a disruptive situation. This approach demonstrates that the server is attentive to the issue while maintaining a level of respect and dignity for the guest. By addressing the behavior directly but calmly, the server can help de-escalate tension and show that they are willing to assist the guest in a constructive manner. This method fosters a better atmosphere, as it encourages open communication and can lead to a resolution without unnecessary conflict.

Ignoring the situation can allow disruptive behavior to escalate, while immediately calling the police can create an adversarial environment and may be seen as excessive. Threatening the guest to cut off service tends to increase hostility and can make the situation worse. The focus should always be on resolving conflicts gracefully and ensuring a positive experience for all guests.